Singing the blues...whaaaaaa

Well it really saddens me that not one single person responded yesterday. I didn't figure anyone would comment, but at least a thumb up/down would have told me if your interest was there. Giving a thumb up/down doesn't reveal your identity, which I'm assuming most don't want to display on such a taboo topic. No one wants to be associated with this. I had to laugh at the audience member that became Dr Oz's assistant in the video. She was VERY quick to claim....I DON'T HAVE THIS! I'm assuming most didn't watch the videos, but you know what they say when you assume.....

Well, anyway, I guess I'll make this my last post on the subject as I can only assume, there's that word again, that no one is interested. However, I'll pretend that it was just the mere fact I posted on the weekend.

I have found this subject very interesting. Maybe it's because I was diagnosed with Pelvic Organ Prolapse in 2009. Actually, I'm sure that's it. Otherwise, I would still be in the dark altogether. I do find that some days, ignorance is bliss, but most days I am glad to know. I also am going to do my best to educate the loved ones around me. Even if I find the topic uncomfortable. I mean, hello, I have 3 girls. 3 beautiful girls that have a right to know that this is a very real health issue. 3 beautiful girls that have a right to know this is not an epidemic of little old ladies or aging. 3 beautiful girls that should know they have other options besides surgery. No one but me is going to tell them this, or you for that matter. If you think your Doctor will, you are wrong. I can tell you some of your options, books, & places to educate yourself. Isn't there anyone interested? Oh wait, I assume you don't think it could happen to you......know I'll be here when it does because this hits 50% of women over 50 & what they don't tell you....many women under 50, young women, like myself, have it as well.......

Why aren't we talking about this?

THINKING THIS MAY NEED A MAN WARNING! YES, you men would benifit, just not sure you wanna hear it.....

I am going to take time out to do something bold & a little scary for me. I'm hoping, if this topic goes over well, I can do a small series of posts on it. Comment, give me a thumbs up/down, or post a comment on the Facebook page so I know I have some interested listeners. :)

Curious how many of you are Dr. Oz fans? I personally am not, but my sis is. I have watched his show a hand full of times but I don't worry over missing it. My sis called me the other day to let me know a topic of my interest was on. Pelvic Prolapse/Pelvic Organ Prolapse/POP, all the same thing, just different ways of saying it, is rarely talked about among us women. How many of you have heard of it?

I've heard it referred to as the "silent epidemic" numerous times but they tend to use that line for lots of things, right? At any rate, I am hoping to help break the silence. My original goal was to actually post Dr. Oz's videos here for you but after working on that long & hard, I had little success. I finally just settled w/posting the links. :(

I'd like to invite you to watch these short segments (each one roughly 5 minutes) & take from it what you will. Write down any questions or thoughts on the topic & then check back in for some discussion with me.
The Truth About Pelvic Prolapse, Pt. 1

The Truth About Pelvic Prolapse, Pt. 2

The Truth About Pelvic Prolapse, Pt. 3

Growing everyday

It was such a busy day yesterday. Whew! A day I've been excited about & dreading at the same time. Our convalidation. I'm not so sure it was the convalidation that I dreaded but the confession that was going to precede it. I hadn't been to confession since the day of my first confession. I was just a child. Talk about nerve wracking since I hadn't been a practicing Catholic for years. I was so wrapped up in my thoughts heading into Church that I stepped right in front of a vehicle!! I wave apologetically & wouldn't you know it, the driver was a familiar face....RD's Pre-K teacher! Eeek. The thought crossed my mind that she thinks I'm a flake! Who walks right out in front of vehicles? Maybe my body was trying to get me out of confession LOL...(just kidding by the way). There were about 5 or so people ahead of me. Good. More time to sweat, more time to think, & more time to pass out. I felt like I was about ready to give the biggest speech of my life! I'm next in line & start wondering...Is there some switch I flip to turn the light from green to red? Hmmm, I guess I'll look around. In I go. The only "switch" I see is a regular light switch. I think to myself it's a good possibility that this is "the" switch. I flip it on. The whole room lights up. CRAP! Nope that is not "the" switch. UGH! Doesn't matter now. Father knows I'm green. Right then & there I have a good laugh at myself. When I sit down to face Father, he's smiling w/me & I know it's all good. Father says, "Welcome home, sister" & I did....I felt right at home.

The convalidation was really heartfelt & personal. It was completely different than I expected. Our Deacon did a wonderful job & gave us the best compliment on our marriage. It was very nice to hear. I can't say enough about how awesome this journey has been & how welcomed we have felt. I am excited to be able to receive communion once again & look forward to Easter when DH will finally be able to receive all of his sacraments as well.

BTW...in case you are wondering...I asked Deacon about said switch...."the switch" is in the seat & kneeler. ;)